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"...he [had] her falling like rain
"Never frown, even when you're sad, because you never know who may be falling in love with your smile." 
Every girl dreams of the perfect man. Whether it be a bad boy, a confusing character, or the sweetest creature on earth. Every girl wants to feel that "blood rushing to the face" feeling. We all wonder, "Where is he?", What is he like?" Ladies, now a days, finding good, honest, respectable men is like trying to find a mouse in a haystack, they're always moving and a few steps ahead, and not always maturely. I admit, preferable looks are a big bonus, but they're not everything. At the end of the day, I would chose the nerd that treats me like every girl deserves to be treated, rather than the jock that blows me off to go hang out with his buddies. This does not mean that I wouldn't like to pick and choose the handsome guys that pass by me in the hallways and on the street. But my goals love-lofe wise is to find a man that spoils me romantically. No, not with materialistic things, although that's also a bonus, but with words that make a woman feels appreciated and truly loved. A very important thing in search for Mr. Right, always be yourself. Then, the guy that accepts you for who you really are, with all your wonderful characteristics, as well as yor flaws, is worthy of your love. The truth is....men love to love, it's their dirty little secret. Men love to feel responsible for delicate dainty ladies such as ourselves. As a lady, we are to teach and learn to love truly and to be loved truly. The key point is patience. When the time is right, God will send us our destined-to-be that special someone for us. That is why we also have to wait for him. Trust me, he will be worth the wait
Love is a funny thing. Sometimes we don't want to accept love into our lives because we are afraid of getting hurt. But when we do finally decide to let love take a place in our lives, it can make us feel this indescribable feeling of joy. However, love can sometimes be a rattlesnake. You can tame it, but at the end, when things start to get a little shaky, your best bet is that someone's probably going to end up getting hurt. When a relationship gets shaky and unstable, sometimes we can't control it and the feeling that once made us feel giddy and special, suddenly throws us into a pit of anger and confusion. But through it all, we should learn to suck out the poison and work on the loose hinges in our relationship. If that's not the case, we must then learn to move on. We can't let a broken heart bring us down. When we do that, we are starting to give up on a feeling that needs us as much as we need it. Every broken heart is a chance to grow. If we could all just stop acting like stupid little cowards and just get out there, sooner or later, we can find someone special. But remember that when we do, we must try it this time without the rose colored glasses. One of the problems we have, as much as we say we don't, is that we become so "in love" with a person, that we can't see as clearly. I'm not saying to get out there expecting that every guy is going to break your heart, but as the saying goes "Falling in love is fun. Stepping in is wise." Remember, Love softens heart and toughens character.
Guy friends are a gift to understanding men. Our guy friends are our backstage pass to understanding how men think and feel. Having a guy friend is a benefit for both sides, it's a patient way to learn about each other's "gender groups" without the responsibility of an actual relationship. I'm going to put myself in the spotlight for a second and talk about my guy friend. He's somebody I can talk to about anything when I want a guy's perspective. I would say that I have taught him how delicate a girl can be and he has taught me how confusing yet sensitive a guy can really be. Okay, Spotlight off. Like I was saying, a guy friend is our shoulder to lean on when your boyfriend isn't talking to you or the girls aren't around to talk to. You know, it's funny how honest we can be with our guy friends rather than our boyfriends. The reason for that is probably because our guy friends are like brothers, our male confidant and our diary in which we confide our thoughts in. They hardly ever judge, but when they do, and we think about it, we realize....they're right. Any girl that has a guy friend knows this is true, so do me a favor, thank him. 
As humans we want to know the good and the bad about the things that happen in our lives and around us, and we should have the right to know not only the good, but the bad as well. Good is a love potion and a blindfold. The Bad is a poison and a metal helmet. The Good needs the Bad because what is a love potion and a blindfold?, unfortunately something I like to call sweet ignorance. Now what is a poison and a metal helmet? Bitter ignorance. When we know of only the good that surrounds us and not the downside, we have drank that love potion and put on that blindfold, completely unaware of any obstacles that may come our way. The poison in the Bad is our anger and/or bitterness, the metal helmet a way to avoid the things that the poison in our lives have caused us. When we know the good and the bad, we have combined the two substances together, therefore creating wisdom and understanding. If we chose to eliminate the other two, we are making room for other things in our lives. However, should we chose to keep them, it is as if we have a "Break in case of Emergency" box. there whenever we need it, there to back up either the good or the bad. The leftover blindfold is there to let our hearts make the right decisions when others try to shoot us down, and the helmet is there to help us keep in control of a situation, and giving us an open mind. You see, without one or the other, we are either stupid, or....stupid.
